Really ladies how many of you want a man that has never been with a female? Or would you care how many women he has been with long as he is good to you. When it comes to men we would not mind that our woman was a virgin and the lower the number of partners is basically a higher value and if this is not true why do so many women lie about how many partners they have had. Its instilled in us from the moment we can interact with the opposite sex. Girls are raised stricter than boys when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. When your son has interests in girls at a young age it is usually encouraged and guided by both the father and mother and the daughter is guided away from men by the father until their 30 lol and the mother til usually 17-18. Now once they get old enough to be with a man its encouraged to find the right one right away and stay, but with men its usually lets see how many you can get, even mothers encourage sons to not to be settled down too young. So now were back to the old saying a woman sleeps with 20 men she is a hoe a man has 20 women and he is a stud or NUPE (insider to the good brothers lol) and this leads me to believe that women are part of the blame for this double standard. If your wondering how I got there lemme ask you this if men were outcast by women because of the number of partners we have that the numbers would shrink drasitcally but because women dont care we dont care lol were just happy ya still havent realized that ya have the power and thats JuzHowIFeel
"if these were 40 yr old men screaming for 17 year old women someone would cal the police"
ReplyDeletebut that does happen.......at the strip club, on skit row, on a street with prostitutes, rich men with young private dancers, etc
and yes it is a double standard that men are usually expected to have some experience and have a muscular physique, but i've known this forever. think of all the double standards women must go through as well. it's not just a one-sided thing, these double standards. yes, women have perks in some legal situations, but so do men. think of the classic double standard if a girl sleeps with multiple men she is a slut. if a guy sleeps with multiple women it is acceptable or even admired. people are improving and double standards have been slowly going away so i think we are looking at a brighter future overall. but please consider the other side of double standards
ReplyDeleteand daughters being locked up in a fortress of protection while the son can go off and do as he pleases without fear is another double standard and the notion that there are two standards of beauty for men but only ONE for women. the older a man gets, the more rugged and manly and desirable he becomes.( until he wears down of course). time is on his side. but for a woman there IS no underdeveloped standard of beauty. but there is a standard of YOUTH. from a very young age you must start to "beautify" yourself according to cultural norms. and as you get older your beauty DECREASES. rugged is bad for women. men can have pot bellies and acne scars and whatever else and still get laid or be seen as the bachelor. whereas WOMEN on the other hand must be virtually hairless hourglasses, but if you have one hairy pit or an ugly nose, forget it, hun.
ReplyDeleteactually rather than me just thinking about some of them, ill just leave this here....
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