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Taking Steps Back a Conversation about going back to your ex
Going Back To an Ended Relationship
Kollekted_Thoughts: you say you do not believe in goin back but you have done it a few times,whats makes you come back?
Patiently_Devoted: well last semester i know why we took a break & it was just personal reasons of things i was going through added with paranoia ... the first time we broke up though i think it was the best thing for us cause when you're not used to adversity in your relationship and you go through it, how we handled it i think says a lot about us as people and how we feel about each other. with [Bobby] there was never a doubt in my mind that i wanted to end up with him at the end of the day, married with kids. but i needed to kinda put things in perspective & so i'd say i came back the second time, things were kinda put in perspective with my disease and how bad i got, it was like how can i be so selfish needing time for myself to get my life together when life's so short to begin with. how could i not be with someone who loves me so much and treats me so good and just cares so much for me. i felt selfish and immature not being with him, cause i was being really self-centered. i think the best thing you can do is love someone, whole-heartedly. and people don't understand relationships are about compromise.. so until you're willing to start seeing the we instead of the me, you're not going to last. i mean people i guess fall out of love. but that's on you to keep the love live
Kollekted_Thoughts: you say you do not believe in goin back but you have done it a few times,whats makes you come back?
Patiently_Devoted: well last semester i know why we took a break & it was just personal reasons of things i was going through added with paranoia ... the first time we broke up though i think it was the best thing for us cause when you're not used to adversity in your relationship and you go through it, how we handled it i think says a lot about us as people and how we feel about each other. with [Bobby] there was never a doubt in my mind that i wanted to end up with him at the end of the day, married with kids. but i needed to kinda put things in perspective & so i'd say i came back the second time, things were kinda put in perspective with my disease and how bad i got, it was like how can i be so selfish needing time for myself to get my life together when life's so short to begin with. how could i not be with someone who loves me so much and treats me so good and just cares so much for me. i felt selfish and immature not being with him, cause i was being really self-centered. i think the best thing you can do is love someone, whole-heartedly. and people don't understand relationships are about compromise.. so until you're willing to start seeing the we instead of the me, you're not going to last. i mean people i guess fall out of love. but that's on you to keep the love live
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Patiently_Devoted Reaction to why boys do the things they do
Patiently_Devoted: I feel that using insecurites is a cop out and that there is much more to that when it comes to the males because I cant accept that it has to be more.
Kollekted_Thoughts: but see thats the thing you think its deeper than that, its really not. we only take what we can have, if you give us a mile were gonna take a mile
Patiently_Devoted: yeah but then i'd have to believe all men are dogs which just isn't true
Kollekted_Thoughts: no
Kollekted_Thoughts: but see thats the thing you think its deeper than that, its really not. we only take what we can have, if you give us a mile were gonna take a mile
Patiently_Devoted: yeah but then i'd have to believe all men are dogs which just isn't true
Kollekted_Thoughts: no
Friday, May 28, 2010
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