Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Fraternity and Sorority "loves"
There has been something on my mind and with me being a proud member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. I see a lot of things that I really wish did not happen. I'll start with the obvious in Indy Love which is very special to me and it bothers me to see the new generation of members in each org tear it apart. If we go back to the roots of it members would not take a rho under their wing just to have sex or take a nupe under your wing for sexual advances. It was done out of the love and wanting to protect the struggling black women by struggling black men. I feel that when you "spec" someone for the wrong reason it will show and if you sleep with that person and the relationship goes sour do not blame the org for what you have done wrong because your breaking down a bond thats so much bigger than yourself. With some of our earliest members protecting the women of Sigma Gamma Rho from the KKK now thats true Indy Love but now a days when someone hugs another person he is not showing Indy Love come on now it has nothing to do with that. This can be applied to almost all greek loves whether it be Coleman, Dove, Phirst Pham, etc If we can get back to our roots our bonds would only be that much stronger so to all members who read this just think what is the bond really about and make a decision with the big head not the little one and thats... JuzHowIFeel
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I agree that these bonds definitely aren't what they used to be. This is especially the case when people prey on the freshest meat on the yard, spec or not.. Its crazy and I think if we talk about the significance of these bonds and put it into practice maybe things would change for the better. By support I mean collaborating on events, attending other people events, forming friendships and not sexual relationships, etc. That's just my piece.
ReplyDeleteI definitely agree. I feel like alot of ppl spec ppl just to engage in sexual relations. I know soo many ppl who end up becoming intimate with their spec b/c he/she was there for them and listened to them and they took it to a whole different level, then they eventually burned bonds with each other b/c they end up not getting along b/c most times they don't have a title and its just sex...smh...#letsgetittogether greeks...and ppl definitely be lurking for the new greeks on the yard b/c it is easier to become friendly with a new person rather than someone who has been around....but I guess in their minds its all love...lol...just remember the greek bonds are way bigger than the lil flings with ur spec...don't blame the org, blame yourself...take initiative....
ReplyDeletetoodles :)