That What If Person In Your Life

As I listen to my slow jam playlist their is a certain song that came on that inspired this piece its called What If  by Baby Face. The what if person in your life. I feel like everyone has that one person that they used to talk to and even though you have moved on and become happy in your life you still wonder what if we were together would things be different. You might wonder why you feel this way out of no where or why the feeling is lingering and I would have to say that from past experiences that there is a reason why that person is the what if and not the person you are with.
These moments can happen at any time whether your single and you meet someone that just has a great aura about them. You could be in a relationship and completely happy when you meet someone that seems to be perfect for you and everything might seem right. Chemistry is amazing and the only thing you can say to yourself is wow they would make a great partner, and there nothing wrong with thinking that way. As long as you can keep it to thoughts its fine, because if you act upon an urge you just commited two wrongs in that the person you think your into at the moment does not get a fair shot because the cheating will cause trust issues and the person your with will be hurt even more out of the selfish act, so be careful because sometimes there are moments in your relationship when things are not going well and that might cause a sudden shift in interest to someone from the past or current and it might temporarily blind you to the reason of why you are not with that person or why you left that person to begin with. I know it seems like that as soon as you get into a relationship you become a hot commodity and people all want a piece of you and that can be tempting under the right circumstances. There is also a time when you feel you need something new and you might think that the grass is greener on the other side but the cure to doing the same thing is not with someone new but shake it up with the person you have.