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Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Things Boys Do

OK I went in on females a little in my last piece but they are not the only problem in the matter. We have a lot of boys still in college portraying men that prey on the weak minded. They see that all an honest woman wants is someone to care for her and women get so into a dude before even knowing them that they're willing to do anything for them and ladies we see it. So they take that and run with it. These boys are immature so you should not be surprised by some of the outrageous things they say and ladies you have to be able to identify game from sincere feelings if someone talking bout wifing you but only invites you over at 3 am thats not sincere. These boys are a trip they tell women the world lie to them and keep as many of these unsuspecting women on the outside as they can and when you get too close they cut you off. Adding to the list of women scorned and it is so corny for them to do that but I hate to say it, if you allow them to do it then it will only continue. I feel like most women never realize they have the power in all relationships smh lol I guess I should be happy they do not know that, could you imagine if all women legs shut for a month how much men would suffer. Back on topic though what i really want to say to the women out there hurting do not mistake a boy for real man because we would never play with your feelings like that. Being a man is a state of mind not an age so there are 21yr old boys out there so do not just rely on age and thats... JuzHowIFeel

2 comments:

  1. This post looks more like: What Women Do (Part II). You discuss how there are a lot of boys in college portraying men in college that prey on the weak.. but still discuss that "it is corny for them to do that but [you] hate to say it, if [women] allow them to do it then it will only continue." I feel like that's such a cop-out (although I agree to a point). Like Lauryn Hill "respect is just a minimum" but there are many factors that contribute to why men and women act the way they do (overall lack of respect for themselves/the opposite sex, self-esteem, "neediness", past relationship problems that you haven't dealt with). I know you aren't trying to give the whole synopsis of why relationships fail in college but it seems like you're portrayal is a little biased, discussing solely the immaturity level of men and "shallowness" of women. There are a lot of good women AND MEN that fall prey to the opposite sexes' shenanigans but even grown ass "men" or those pretending to be gotta give me a better excuse than immaturity for why they think it's okay to treat women so badly.

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  2. I posted that last thought. Didn't know I could keep an alias :)

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